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In the Soulful Spirit of Mary J. Blige’s “I’m Goin’ Down”
Patricia Ann “Pat” Bullard
June 25, 1965 – June 18, 2025
“I’m goin’ down… ‘Cause you ain’t around…”
That song wasn’t just a melody to her—it was her anthem. And if you ever saw her strut through a room, lips glossed, heart wide open—you knew “Pat” wasn’t just her name. She was Mary J. Blige in spirit, and every step she took came with soul.
Born on a hot summer day in 1965, Patricia Ann Bullard came into this world already in motion—dancing, styling, and living with her head high and heels higher. She didn’t just wear fashion; she was fashion. Headwraps, fur coats and a Mary J. beat in the background. Wherever Pat went, the vibe followed.
Pat made her transition on June 18, 2025, just one week before her 60th birthday. Though our hearts are heavy, our spirits are lifted by her legacy of flair, fire, and fierce love. She leaves behind one devoted daughter, a beautiful circle of grandchildren, siblings who adored her, loving aunts, doting nieces and nephews, cherished cousins, loyal friends, and a host of extended loved ones who were touched by her spirit and sass.
She wasn’t quiet about her love, and she sure wasn’t quiet about her music. “I’m Goin’ Down” was her song—but Patricia was always rising. Rising above trials. Rising in style. Rising in laughter. And now, rising into eternal rest with all the grace and gold that she carried on earth.
Celebration of Life Services
Public Viewing
Friday, June 27, 2025
1:00 PM – 3:00 PM
Celebrations of Life by Leggett-Patterson Funeral Home
320 B E. 24th Street, Lumberton, NC
Homegoing Service
Saturday, June 28, 2025
2:00 PM | Visitation at 1:00 PM
Beauty Spot Missionary Baptist Church
Rowland , North Carolina
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